Tu trebuie sa fii constient care iti sunt valorile cele mai inalte,
si sa faci in asa fel incat lucurile pe care te concentrezi cel mai mult
sa aiba la baza valorile tale cele mai inalte.
Astfel iti folosesti timpul cu adevarat util.
Deci inlocuieste lucrurile neimportante si lucrurile care iti aduc rezultate minime,
cu lucrurile relevante valorilor tale cele mai inalte, si care iti vor aduce rezultatele maxime.
Thursday 29 July 2010
Friday 23 July 2010
Tu cum invetzi din gresli?
Din experiente 'nasoale' mereu invetzi cate ceva.
(mai mult sau mai putzin, in functie de cat de atent/minutzios esti).
1. patesti experienta 'nasoala' si invetzi ceva din ea.
2. patzesti din nou experienta 'nasoala', pentru ca ai fost bou si nu ti-ai invatat lectia complet, din prima. doar ai invatzat sa recunosti situatia.
3. acum stii sa recunosti situatia respectiva, si stii ce altceva poti face
Si acum ai evoluat. Pentru ca ai invatat cum sa te descurci mai bine in situatia aceea, si ai si inavtat cum sa inveti mai bine.
Thursday 22 July 2010
YOU HAVE TO WORK ON YOUR DREAMS AT LEAST 2-4 H PER DAY!
This is very important:
Maybe you want to see Africa, you want to be rich, you want to make 1 mil $,
you want to have a great relationship, you want to do something extraordinary.
Do you think all your dreams and wishes are just going to come true 'by magic'?
Without any dedication or time on your part?
NO!
WARNING: If you let time slip by wasting it with trivial things that don't matter AT ALL, you will waste your life!
WARNING: WASTING TIME IS ALMOST THE SAME AS KILLING YOURSELF.
Likewise spending time on less than vitally relevant things is also a waste of time.
SO: Use your time very wisely! (remember the 80/20 rule)
AND.
SPEND AT LEAST 2-4 HOURS PER DAY WORKING ON YOUR DREAMS !!!
Wednesday 21 July 2010
Thursday 15 July 2010
Wake up to music that you love and that energizes you!
This is a great idea,
especially if until now you had the common habits of sleeping in, of hitting snooze repeatedly,
of waking up groggy, etc. And especially if you are chronically late.
Starting out a day in a bad manner and spiralling...
The solution to all these problems is simple. It's common sense actually.
Wake up in a great way, a way that makes you energized, and even gives you a high - gives you a Joy for Living.
OK, sure it's common sense... but it's common sense that is not commonly practised.
So: one way would be to wake up naturally, from sunlight. This is a great way,
but solutions would be either natural sunlight, having your bed next to the window, and facing the sunrise... and having it be a sunny day...
One good replacement for this would be a sunrise alarm clock. Oddly enough they're quite tough to find in many places... but if you're really determined to get this handled you'll do whatever it takes to find one.
Another solution (or part of the solution)
Wake up to music that you love, and that energizes you!
This is simple:
find some of your favourite songs and put them in a startup playlist,
and set up your computer to wake up at a given time every day.
Seems simple.
But it often does not work... so what's the problem?
I recently found it...
Here's the catch:
The first song has to have a huge emotional impact on you. It has to energize you instantly.
This is where NLP anchors knowledge and experience can really help.
If it's just a song you ..'like' it won't work - you'll just keep on sleeping and be annoyed at the song.
It has to be an upbeat song, and it has to be linked to a very intense experience you had - then it the emotions and the adrenaline and energy of that experience will come flooding in and you'll JUMP out of bed!
It's even better than coffee. ;)
And you'll HAVE A GREAT DAY!
Tu te compari cu persoane care le invidiezi?
Am analizat nitzel un mod de gandire al meu.. aproape subconstient...
Si am observat niste lucruri..
Exista o parte din mine care are obiceiul (automat, si subconstient) de a se compara cu alte persoane, cunoscute pe care le invidiaza.
presupunere: partea a fost asa 'invatzata' cu mult timp in urma
presupunere2: partea face acest lucru automat (competenta inconstienta), adica e deja obicei automat
se spune ca trebuie sa te compari numai cu tine.
dar daca partea aia din mine insista sa se compare cu alte persoane,
macar sa aleg niste persoane pe care le admir, si catre care as vrea sa ma apropii ca si comportament si ca si posesiuni/valoare financiara, si mai ales ca si reusite si succes.
sugestii:
1. SA TE COMPARI IN PRIMUL SI IN PRIMUL RAND CU TINE.
Ai evoluat fatza de cine erai cu un an in urma? daca da atunci felicitari, esti pe drumul cel bun.
si in al doilea rand:
2. Nu te mai gandi la, si nu te mai compara cu persoane pe care le invidiezi.
si in schimb
poti sa te ghidezi dupa SUCCESUL PERSOANELOR PE CARE LE ADMIRI!
si sa lucrezi sa te indrepti catre un succes similar cu al lor, dar care iti apartine tzie,
care este personal, si care este relevant valorilor tale principale.
Wednesday 14 July 2010
Monday 5 July 2010
The 80-20 principle
descoperirea zilei in domeniul self-dev:
desi aveam asa o idee despre treaba asta (din niste materiale care le-am studiat cu 1-2 ani in urma)
nu ii dadusem mare importanta pana acum.
pare sa fie FOARTE IMPORTANT.
Friday 2 July 2010
You want a surprise
"The moment you have a situation when you are really in control of things (that is to say a situation where the future is almost completely predictable), a completely predictable future is already the past. You've had it.
...
That's not what you want.
You want a surprise."
- Alan Watts
Thursday 1 July 2010
Trupul tau este templul unde este onorat sufletul tau
Unii oameni cred ca trupul lor este o inchisoare, in care sufletul e tzinut captiv, pana mor.
si altzii au convingerea ca trupul este un templu, in care se afla temporar sufletul, si unde sufletul este onorat.
Trupul tau este un templu.
Corpul tau este templul in care este onorat sufletul tau.
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