Are you trying to get or are you CREATING?

When you are in bed with a woman, are you trying to get or are you CREATING?


Are you trying to get sex from her (getting mindset) ?

or

Are you CREATING a beautiful moment for her, and for you (CREATING mindset) ?


If you are trying to get, then you are going to be in your head, thinking of what to do, what to say, and you're not even going to be there, with her, feeling the moment.
and it's going to be a constant challenge. it's hard following the getting pathway.

If you are trying to Create, to increase the beauty of the moment, then it does not even matter if you 'get laid'.
What matters is that you are expressing yourself, openly, fully, and authentically.
no hidden agendas. no lines or routines. just you. just what you are feeling in the moment.
if sex does not happen, you are not affected. if it does, you enjoy it.
Once you experience the creating pathway, there's really no going back.